Are you sabotaging your fat loss goals?

sushi and teriyaki comboWhat you do prior to, and after your workout is just as important as the exercises itself, so why do people refuel with junk? People choose to exercise for a variety of reasons: to look good, lose excess fat, maintain or get fit, reduce pain, correct posture, and/or to be able to do the things they love, such as golf, or being able to play with their grandkids, so I don’t know why people think it’s okay to pig out right after a workout session.

One woman rewards her walk with a couple of chocolate bars, a man feasts on drive-through fast-food after his workout session with his trainer in the park, and, this one is the most common, join friends for lunch at a favorite restaurant with a high-fat, high-carb meal.

Your body is primed for food after exercise so you want to replenish with water, salt, carbohydrates from fruit or vegetables, a small amount of healthy fat (like avocado), and lean protein. Your body needs nutrients, not just calories.

Exercising won’t offset frequent bad eating habits. You cannot eat anything you want no matter how much, or how hard you exercise. You can have your lunch out with friends, and a decadent dessert once in a while; food shouldn’t be what makes you happy; it’s the friendships, experiences, and an able, healthy body that enables us to live life to the fullest.

Exercise is not punishment; stop thinking about it those terms. Exercise is the time for you to focus on yourself; the reward is THE WORKOUT!

Photo: You can get healthy options when you go out to eat, depending on where you go and what you order. Unfortunately, the portions at restaurants are much too large. Even the sushi plate with teriyaki chicken and the one-cup of rice above is too large of a serving for most people. Skip the rice, soup, and the fried foods when eating out.



The skinny metabolism myth

_L5A0476_Lightroom_Export_Full_Size_JPEG_300dpi_sRGBPeople have come up to me and told me that I’m lucky, genetically gifted, can eat whatever I want, and still stay skinny. None of those statements are true. I actually gain fat very easily, don’t have a fast metabolism (it’s just normal), and have to track, weigh and measure my food to stay lean.

People always assume I’m vegan just by looking at me too. I don’t know what a vegan is supposed to look like, but I do eat animal meat (sorry, but going 100% vegan makes me feel like crap).

I actually don’t think I’ve ever met anyone over 30 that’s thin, and consumes whatever their heart desires. The fact is, people who aren’t overweight, don’t eat too much. Underweight people can become overweight if they eat a lot.

The excuses for not putting in effort to exercise and/or cutting back calories and junk food, because you have a slow metabolism, you can never get lean, that all diets fail, or you’re too old to get strong and fit, are myths. You can achieve your weight loss and strength goals, as long as your time lines for achieving those goals are realistic, and you’re consistent.

Don’t give up, that’s part of the process. Keep trying different things, and if you’re not succeeding, don’t be cheap and expect to get everything for free; pay for help from a certified trainer and/or someone who has a nutrition certification. Money paid to better yourself is always well worth the price.

Photo: me

What fitness trainers have to put up with

If you are thinking about hiring a personal trainer, want to be a personal fitness trainer, or already work with a trainer, you’ll find out info they won’t tell you in this YouTube video I created.

Eat lower carb, not low carb or no carbs

lower carb dieting, not low carb diets

Whenever people ask me about losing weight and about carbs, I’ve found that people are mixing a lot of information up, and getting it wrong. I’ll try to simplify it.

Carbs play an important role in health and digestion, certain carbs are good and some are just plain bad for you. Zero or extremely low-carb diets should only be taken on for a few weeks (like for a fitness show or photos), or for those with a medical condition (like epilepsy, uncontrollable diabetes, or SIBO patients) while under a doctor’s supervision since extremely low carbohydrate diets lead to malnutrition, dehydration, and digestive issues.

A low-carb diet is vague and has no exact definition, so it can mean different things to different people. What I suggest is that people follow a healthy lower-carbohydrate diet, by that, I mean, don’t eat the way a typical American eats with a plateful of pasta with meatballs; a breakfast bagel with cream cheese, lox and orange juice; or a grilled cheese sandwich. Those meals have too much unhealthy, processed carbs and not enough protein. If the carbohydrate doesn’t grow in the field, on a plant, or on a tree, it’s processed and not good for your body. Instead, go for fruit, not juice (which isn’t fresh, pasteurized [heated], with pulp [fiber] removed); and eat vegetables like sweet potatoes, carrots, onions, peas, corn, and zucchini (great for making make noodles), a variety of beans, and some nuts (nuts are mostly fat, but contain carbs too). Healthy, whole-food carbohydrates are full of nutrients, fiber and protect us from disease. Eat your vegetables!

The amount of carbs you should eat per meal really depends on how many times a day you eat, if you’re overweight, underweight, if you’re male or female, how tall you are, how active you are, what medical conditions you have, and how old you are. According to the National Academy of Medicine, you don’t want to eat fewer than 135 grams of carbs on a daily basis, which is about four 1/2 cups plus ¼ cup of carbs (totaling 2 1/4 cups per day). So, if you eat four times a day, you’ll want to pair your lean protein with ½ cup of carbs, and one snack with ¼ cup of carbs (like a half of banana, an orange, or two figs).

I generally eat 135-150 grams of carbs each day, which I consider to be a lower-carbohydrate diet, and a great starting point for most females. For an active man that is 5’7 or taller, 165-200 grams of whole food carbs, should meet your nutritional needs.

When you change your diet from too few carbs, or too many processed carbs to an appropriate amount of whole-food, nutrient dense carbs, you’ll have a lot more energy, fewer digestive issues, preserve muscle, lose unnecessary fat, and feel and look much better.

Photo: Sweet potatoes are a high carbohydrate food, but are very healthy; just make sure to pair it with a lean protein, and don’t eat more than 1/2-3/4 cup per meal.

make tacos less fattening & yummier!

vegan tacos

I love tacos! I could eat tacos every day! Vegan vegetable tacos, shrimp tacos, chicken fajitas tacos, steak tacos, shredded pork tacos…yummy! Here’s how I stay slim and still eat tacos every week:

  1. Use corn tortillas, not flour tortillas. They are smaller, have fewer calories, and great for those than cannot eat gluten or wheat.
  2. Grill or broil dry tortillas. Don’t fry or put oil on the tortillas, that adds extra fat and calories, and doesn’t really make the meal taste that much better.
  3. Skip the cheese. The salt and extra fat is unnecessary if the other ingredients are fresh.
  4. Go light on the guacamole. Avocados are a healthy fat, but they are a high-calorie fruit, so use just a dollop of guacamole on each taco.
  5. Limit yourself to 2 or 3 tacos. Portion control is essential for weight loss, and don’t stuff those tacos so much that the contents don’t stay in the taco shell.
  6. Choose lean proteins. The fattier the meat, the more calories you’re eating, so choose chicken breast over chicken thighs, carne asada steak over shredded pork or duck, ground turkey breast cooked in stock over ground turkey cooked in its own fat and/or oil. Or, just go for a veggie taco with beans, sautéed onions, zucchini and bell peppers.
  7. Go light on the sour cream. While sour cream has about 23 calories per tablespoon, a few dollops can add up to an extra 100 calories you don’t need. Drizzle on the sour cream or, use an unsweetened vegan coconut yogurt, which can be 1/4 th the calories of sour cream.

My dairy-free tacos, prepared above with sliced red bell peppers, cabbage and green onions; chopped fresh cilantro, and plenty of red and green hot sauce, is what I serve to my guests, get rave reviews, and they don’t even know the tacos are guilt-free or low calorie.



Four reasons you’re not getting stronger

_L5A0950-Lightroom_Export_Full_Size_JPEG_300dpi_sRGBWe should all strive to be strong, mentally and physically. If you’re not seeing results in strength or muscle size, there’s four possible reasons why that is.

  1. You’re doing the same thing all the time. If you do the same exercises for more than 4-6 weeks, you won’t get stronger because that’s when results plateau. While you’ll become more efficient at those exercises, since practice is what makes it easier, it won’t make you stronger. Make sure to switch up your workouts every month; it’s a lot more fun to try something different.
  2. You’re working each muscle group once a week. While you may become better at whatever exercises you do over time, muscle maintenance is for weekly workouts. If you want muscle growth, you need to work all muscles at least twice a week.
  3. You’re not getting enough nutrients. Muscles need protein and various nutrients to grow. You also need a variety of nutrients for energy and overall health. If you’re eating chips, crackers, cookies, and chicken, you’re not going to see the gains you’d like if you were eating vegetables, a variety of lean proteins, fruit, with a sprinkling of seeds and nuts.
  4. You’re not sleeping enough. The majority of muscle repair takes place at night, so don’t skimp on sleep!

Photo: me at World Gym, now TG in Pacific Beach.

Chocolate & Liquor Protein Pops

Low-Carb Chocolate Protein Pops

These dairy-free & nut-free popsicles are creamy, with a hint of chocolate and coffee liquor, with a touch of sweetness.


  • 1 large ripe banana, broken into six chunks
  • ¾ cup Pacific oat milk, original
  • 1 ounce Kaluah
  • 1 T cocoa powder, level
  • 1 scoop Now egg white protein powder

Place ingredients in the order above in a small blender cup, and mix until fully incorporated. Pour into three popsicle molds and freeze for 12 hours. Keep frozen.

Nutrition per popsicle: Calories 142   Carbs 22   Fat 1 gram Protein 7 grams

*Flavor may change if using brands not listed above.



don’t exercise with your friend or family

childhood friends

Having a friend to exercise with to motivate you to workout, and to be accountable, is an incredible gift, but, what if you’re the one that wants to work out, and your friend doesn’t want to? What if that friend that doesn’t like to exercise dreads it, and demotivates you; or that friend is frequently late, cutting your workout short. Or maybe your workout buddy finds excuses not to exercise and cancels. In those instances, working out with your friend is a really bad idea, because you’re not exercising enough and/or not hard enough.

Another reason not to exercise with your friend, is that it’s really rare to have a buddy who has exactly the same goals, strength and flexibly as you do. You might really like some exercises and she may hate those. She may have knee issues and won’t do plyometrics, but you want to do box jumps. Or, maybe she pushes you too hard, or makes you lift too much weight, which can lead to injury; that’s not good either.

I’ve trained husbands and wives, moms and daughters, and best friends, and the problem is always that one person is stronger than the other, which means, that I, as their personal trainer, has to pay more attention to one person more than the other, and some exercises may not be hard enough for the client that is more fit. So the client that is weaker gets more attention, which isn’t fair to the stronger client; I do this to make sure no one gets hurt.

When I’m training two people, it’s a challenge, and limiting, since I have to find two exercise machines that are close to each other (and available, which can be hard when the gym is busy), and an area large enough that will accommodate the three of us, and those exercises have to be ones that both people can do.

The other problem is that when one person cannot make the training appointment, the other person typically cancels the training session completely, either because they don’t want to pay the full cost of personalized training, or because they are so used to training with their partner, they don’t workout at all.

The bottom line is that, if your workout partner motivates you, you get along, your schedules work perfectly together, you enjoy your sessions more, and your exercises are more effective and you get more done, then your workout buddy is a keeper. But if your exercise partner is causing you to miss sessions, cuts sessions short, pushes you too hard, picks on you, stresses you out, dictates all the exercises, or is holding you back from getting stronger, it’s better to workout on your own.

some vegan burgers are worse than beef


burger and friesEveryone knows to avoid fatty animal meat; one of the reasons is due to it’s high cholesterol, but vegan alternatives can be bad for our health too.

Lots of vegan products are made with genetically modified (GMO) ingredients, chemicals (usually disguised as flavors), sugar, and various flours and oils.

What’s growing in popularity due to it’s yummy taste is the Impossible Burger. The ingredients should stop you from trying it though:

Impossible Burger ingredients: water, sunflower oil, coconut oil, potato protein, natural flavors (numerous chemicals), leghemoglobin (GMO soy), yeast extract, salt, konjac gum, xanthan gum, (GMO) soy protein isolate, synthetic vitamins, and methylcellulose (1).

That’s a lot of stuff! There’s GMO ingredients, and the problem with GMO foods is that GMO crops use pesticides that have proven to cause cancer and other dangerous problems for humans.

The Impossible Burger also has more fat and carbs, is high in salt, has less protein, but more fiber than beef burgers (1). I make turkey burgers at home with herbs and spices,  without fillers, or soy. If you want a vegan burger, and don’t want to eat soy, GMO or potentially dangerous chemicals from entering your system, make a vegan burger from scratch. The commercial food industry has no interest in you, only your money.

  1. Source: “What is the Impossible Burger, and is it healthy?” Healthline. 2019. Apr. 25.



Why I won’t eat spirulina

spirulina is dangerous

I used to put spirulina powder, for its many vitamins, minerals and antioxidants; in my fruit smoothies, and I even made a raw vegan spirulina pie at one point, but I stopped consuming this algae because the taste was too strong.

I’m glad I stopped putting this dark green powder in my food because it’s been shown to be contaminated with toxins, heavy metals, bacteria, and can harm the liver (1).

  1. Source: “What are the side effects and dangers of Spirulina.” Healthline. 2019. Jun 4.



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